Anonymous asked: Recently, I started talking a very, very dominant guy online. We connected the moment we started talking. Tonight, he asked how much I weigh. (Approx. 140) When I told him, he said it was *way* too much... now I feel like shit. :( Thoughts?
Thought; he’s an asshole.
Anonymous asked: What's the square root of cake?
The cake is a lie.
kyrga asked: Harry Potter or Star Wars? Oh... *no* tough questions. I'm drinking a little too!
vicissitudesoffate asked: *asks tough question*
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Anonymous asked: My girl has a job that requires her to be assertive and tell people what to do. She and I are both finding that because she's letting out her submissive side with me and letting me take care of her it's hard for her to switch it on and off in her job. She loves her job but struggles to be assertive, I want to encourage her career but I also enjoy her relying on me to fix her problems. Thought maybe you or the wonderful following you have could suggest something.
One thing my girl enjoys is when I make rules for her behavior at work. As in, I require her to stick up for herself. But it falls out of the realm of D/s and more into the realm of just good support from a husband. When she has a conflict at work, we role-play the conversation and go over how she ought to handle it. Try that. She’ll feel loved, you’ll feel powerful, and work will feel easier to her, knowing that she has her Dominant on her shoulder.
Anonymous asked: I was wondering if I could have your opinion on whether or not you believe a person can change after they let their anger slip and they put their hands on their partner? I've known my partner nearly seven years and not once has he tried to hurt me. We were having communication issues and he bottled things up/eventually exploded. It's no excuse, and him and I are in the process of getting therapy/him classes to prevent this. Am I a bad person for believing someone can change? Opinions?
Well, let’s put it this way:
Yes, it is possible, but I wouldn’t bet my life on it.
Anonymous asked: I've been getting really close with this guy and I want to be intimate with him. Let's just be honest here, I literally just want him to push me up against the wall and fuck my brains out. But, he's 11 years older than me. Is it wrong for me to want him?
Depends on how old you are.
Anonymous asked: Do you think it's possible to make a relationship work with somebody if you can only see them once a week at best?
Some people can. I could not.
Anonymous asked: What is the most embarrassing but funny thing you've ever done while tipsy/drunk?
Anonymous asked: I've suffered virtually alone in my depression & its many ties(ED, self harm, disconnection, etc) for over eight years. I have the want to be controlled & am extremely submissive/passive. I'm worried that it might be due to the fact that I have little control over myself because of my struggles, and just want to follow in someone else's foot steps. I question whether or not I'm "laying down & dying" by succumbing to these desires. Is this common at all in the BDSM community? Any help is loved!
I know I have some submissive followers who could help with this. Ladies?
Anonymous asked: Were there any difficulties proposing to/ trying to wed Girl due to any opposition or whatnot from her family's side? Or yours?
No. I asked her father first and he was very gracious. My parents were like, “put a ring on that thing quick before she changes her mind you idiot”
Anonymous asked: Do you have some control issues, or is that what she likes?
Um. Yes and yes.